Second arrest made after 5-year-old girls were left sleeping in a shed
Staff report
WALDO, Fla. – Tamara Stoiber, 37, was arrested yesterday morning and charged with two counts of child neglect and two counts of false imprisonment after allegedly leaving her five-year-old daughters sleeping in a shed, with a brick holding the door closed.
At about 2:55 a.m. on June 28, an Alachua County Sheriff’s Deputy responded to a property in the 13600 block of NE U.S. Hwy 301 in Waldo, where the caller and the property owner said they had found two five-year-old girls asleep in a shed with a brick blocking the door. The deputy noted that the shed’s door was only held closed by the brick and the shed is only about 100 feet from the highway, so the children could have pushed their way out and wandered onto the highway in an area that was not well-lit.
Sabine Thrift, 59, was previously arrested for child neglect in the case because Stoiber reportedly asked her to babysit the girls, but Thrift allegedly left them alone after waiting about two hours.
The caller met with a deputy and reportedly told him that Stoiber, her five-year-old daughters, and her boyfriend had arrived at the property unannounced on Friday night, soaking wet and claiming to have walked from Gainesville to Waldo; she said the two girls were carrying bags.
The caller said she offered Stoiber and the girls a foot-long sandwich, but Stoiber ate the entire sandwich and did not share it with the children. The property owner reportedly saw Stoiber leave with her boyfriend but did not see Thrift until later.
The caller reportedly saw Thrift at the Waldo Train Station at some point after the children were left in the shed, and Thrift told her that Stoiber had left the children with her while she went to the store, but she was not going to babysit the children and Stoiber needed to learn her lesson.
The shed has no electricity or running water; the children had no way to call for help and no food or water, and the brick prevented them from easily getting out of the shed in an emergency. A large knife was reportedly found near the children and was accessible to them. The property owner reportedly said he did not give Stoiber permission to leave the children in the shed.
The deputy reported that Thrift sent a text message to Stoiber at one point that said, “I am leaving, [they’re] your kids, like to know what store you went.” Thrift allegedly stayed with the girls for about two hours and then left for two hours before returning to the shed; she was arrested at 5:35 a.m.
The deputy reported that Stoiber did not return until 6:42 a.m., “which is a longer than usual trip to the ‘store.'”
Post Miranda, Stoiber reportedly denied leaving the children as long as she had and said she had left the shed between 3:00 and 3:30 a.m.; however, the deputy reported that the children were found by the caller before 2:55 a.m. because that was when she called law enforcement. The deputy also noted that Thrift claimed to have stayed with the children for two hours and then left for two hours. Stoiber reportedly denied knowing anything about a brick being placed in front of the shed’s door, but the caller and property owner both said they found a brick there when they found the children.
Stoiber has been charged with two counts of child neglect for failing to properly supervise her children or provide them with food, water, lighting, and a phone for communication; she has been charged with two counts of false imprisonment for confining the children to a shed by placing a brick in front of the door.
Stoiber’s boyfriend, Matthew Earl Waldo, 47, is also listed as a suspect on Stoiber’s arrest report, but he has not been arrested as of the publication of this article.
Stoiber has no local criminal history; Judge Jonathan Ramsey set bail at $70,000.
Articles about arrests are based on reports from law enforcement agencies. The charges listed are taken from the arrest report and/or court records and are only accusations. All suspects are innocent until proven guilty in a court of law.
My heart goes out to the children who happen to have a mother with poor judgment by leaving them with their grandmother who also left them in the shed for hours. No excuse either one has will ever be good enough to justify their actions. I hope these girls can be raised by someone who can give them love and security.
I was getting gas at the store next to the train station park and seen two little blonde head girls playing earliest this week. All three adults were sleeping. I bout the little girls drinks and chips. And I kicked the bench and woke the woman up and told her she needs to keep an eye on them kids. If I would of known how bad it actually was for them girls I would of alerted the proper authorities.
So sad for these little children.
Thank you for offering food.
✨FOOD FOR THOUGHT:
Please everyone always call the Police, CPS & Animal Services anytime you see Children or Animals abused & neglected.
Photo & Video what you witness at the time.
Time & Date Stamp the evidence.
I truly Pray the little children are safe now and fed.
Totally irresponsible and should be fixed to prevent more children. Sad indictment.
The system is actually what helps abusers gain custody. Look up Reunification camps & Reunification therapy. Start court watching in your district.
Please research how many times Florida CPS has abused/killed children in their care, not to mention the sex offenders as Foster parents (fact).
There is no $$$ in keeping children safe. Family court is a 585 billion dollar industry yearly (pre COVID). Bottom line- family courts are NOT acting in the best interest of children.
Heartbreaking to read about. Not the praying type, but instead I am truly wishing for a better future for the 2 girls.
In a better world the mom would get help instead of getting arrested. We as a society are guilty of neglect.
She knew what she was doing, What kind of help? She’s walking with her boyfriend. LOCK her UP!
Please put the children’s well being first! The chance they will have a safe and happy life with this person is very slim. Time to put their needs and feelings before the woman who gave birth to them.
“No arrest record”
We don’t know the circumstances, though the fact that the mother has no arrest record indicates this may be a one-off bad event not typical for her. One hopes that whatever social services oversight is assigned to the girls keeps in mind that institualizing them or putting them in foster home care could be the worst outcome. Hopefully the mother is quickly out of jail and at least evaluated as potentially able to get it together.
She just never got caught; she’s a real criminal. Anyone that can just leave your kids like this deserves to be locked up.
I agree – while I suspect the mother in this situation is habitually neglectful, it’s possible that this was a one-off situation. It should not be an easy or light thing to take custody from parents. Sometimes sadly necessary, but it shouldn’t be done without careful, thorough assessment.
It’s so tempting to make quick judgements in cases like this. Just sad all around.
District 8 Family Court judges routinely ignore evidence of abuse; family courts are the biggest barrier to child safety. NO child should have contact with an abusive parent.
Enough is enough; it’s rampant all over the state
Investigate the Florida family courts
I know this woman personality and I still believe there is a decent human being somewhere buried deep down inside. But I do agree that she needs to be where she is right now, locked up. The children are safe and that’s all that matters. I have read a few comments that said, ” put the children’s needs first” and that is 100% correct. Also remember, we’re all human and we all make bad decisions or mistakes…